Q: I have tickets on Aer Lingus to fly from Dublin to Paris. I was diagnosed with lung cancer a few weeks before we were due to leave.
I have no idea what my situation will be in April or any time before. Not yet, anyway, and certainly not in the 30 days they were willing to give me. Thanks for anything you can accomplish. -- Merrill Hakim, Philadelphia
A: Good for United for refunding your non-refundable ticket. Aer Lingus should have done the same, but it didn't have to.
You booked a non-refundable ticket with significant restrictions. An airline will tell you that you always have the option of buying a more expensive ticket that can be refunded, but those tickets can cost twice as much as the non-refundable variety. For most leisure travelers, that's impractical (indeed, the tickets are meant for business travelers on a corporate expense account).
Airlines sometimes waive their ticket restrictions, issuing refunds when a passenger dies or a close relative of a passenger dies, or when you're in the military and your orders change. But again, they are not required to do that. A serious illness like lung cancer can be a reason for refunding a non-refundable ticket. In my opinion, it should be.
Incidentally, airlines let themselves off the hook from their agreements with passengers for all kinds of reasons, including bad weather or events "beyond their control." They aren't required to operate a flight on time, or at all, and the penalties -- if any -- are negligible. I don't have a problem asking an airline to waive its rules when it has little problem waiving a rule for itself.
I see that you tried to contact Aer Lingus by phone and then in writing, but the airline wouldn't budge for you. I sent you some higher-level contacts at the airline, but that didn't work either. The answer remained a firm "no."
I contacted Aer Lingus on your behalf and asked it to review your request one more time. It did, and decided to issue a full refund.
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